'Change is constant , change is inevitable' - Benjamin Disreali

In the next few months this blog will go through certain changes to make it more interesting; I set a goal for it to be one of the most read blog in Nigeria. (lol)

Watched West African idols first time last night, old episode though!!! on silverbird television. i was appalled by what the presenter Mike Magic wore, he looked like a magician…..his suit looked more like cut and nail and his shirt was….just wasn’t it. I wonder what look the stylists were aiming for. He’s really cool as a presenter but...... anyways I’ll save that.
But what where the stylist of the contestants thinking??!!
They all where badly dressed and the make up on the females where overdone to the max!! They looked more like juju dolls.
The best dressed was Omawunmi, and she has such a wonderful voice. What was that rag on Eric’s head? Please…….just spoilt the look, one had on such tight trousers that oh!!Can’t think about it and the rest girls wore unflattering attires for their shapes and the colours where….whatever.
The judges where cool, really feel them, especially Dan.
Good job…my vote definitely goes to Eric, sang Steve Wonder’s signed , sealed , delivered, Timi’s rendition of Diana Ross ‘ain’t no mountain high enough’ was also very good and beautiful.all the contestant really putting in their best and just styling it would be at par with other idols. Just stating my opinion and hope subsequent episodes would be better. What'z even the craze for reality shows in Nigeria? Have to look into that soon.

Please check out this site and vote. www.mnetafrica.com/idols/

Personal
Why are guys so mischevious, especially about or when in a relationship(s)??
It’s a question I keep asking myself, but today I’m asking myself aloud. Heard the good (?) news that a male acquaintance (ok, ok, friend) is tying the knot tomorrow..(his story is a long one). This was same guy that almost swore that him and his gal where on the verge of a break up and they really talk and all that s***. Anyways, I almost became the source of his attention, had to make a quick break to that as I won’t be no rebound!! No sir!! This is wishing them a happy life together!

My question of today: Who’s in your bed tonight?
I’ll give you my answer soon!

just remembered the bbc short story competition will end on monday!!
haven't written anything and my mind is so jammed up......what do i write on?
my old short stories are inadequate i think, just plain gibberish. a friend told me i sometimes act weird...he should read my stories!!
well,well,got an official meeting in the next one hour, my hopes are kinda high and pray not to receive a beating in there.
thinking of the central theme of my blog, got sooo many interests......maybe i should start commenting on naija magazines and softsells....i enjoy reading the mags, the softsells are just..........softsells with all the society gossips(sic). what ever....
wonder if i can change the name of this blog.searching into that
laters

i'm in the process of being de - relationshipped(whatever that means!),why do we use big words to cover up or shield our problems? thats the reason why we have those tongue twisting and tied words that no one can ever pronounce. so today i've decided to be first and foremost happy and joyful and i owe myself that and secondly not to allow any kind of tirade (electronically or otherwise) from my bro make me feel bad. whatever men!! let it happen, if heavens are falling,its sure gonna fall right on me, period.

psychology sucks!! i hate it when its been used against me!! think i'm pissed right now. well anyone with nice juicy naija gist should hit me up, pictures are welcome...looking forward to have an interesting time here..

Thankful

through the several past months, i've forgotten how to write, the reason was i felt i had nothing to write about and certain circumstances distracted me from this. well, most times the atmosphere in me have been pretty heavy, something that even jokes or funny stories won't be able to lighten, but this morning learnt something interesting and valuable; the ability to create a new you, to get unstuck in negativity and depression simply by being thankful for the good things in your life. I'm grateful and thankful for a roof over my head though its not a mansion but i'm content, my job;it may not be what i want but it pays my bills, my family, my experiences, my life, good health and hope of a better life.
i can't have it all but i know i can be content for all i have while expecting greater things.